James, 17.
I had been living with my mum, my step-father and my cat. The relationship between me and my stepdad was completely destructive, mentally and emotionally.
After 7 years of violence I ran away from home and was homeless. I couch surfed at first with a friend until that accommodation was no longer an option either. My school became aware of my situation and put me in contact with TINOCA that same day. I was nervous about whether I would be able to be accommodated. I called up and was invited to come in that night. I remember trying to be open-minded about what it was going to be like.
I’ve now been at TINOCA for 2 months. I am happy to say that I have great attendance at school and am on my way to doing well in my ATAR exams. My stay at TINOCA has been really beneficial, not only do I have a safe place to stay but my social skills have improved, I have had minimal days off school and am coping with the stress of exams and homelessness. Next up? I plan to go to university, get a private rental with a mate and possibly rebuild my relationship with mum.
Without TINOCA I would still be homeless and moving from couch to couch, or I would be back in a toxic family environment, unable to succeed or be myself.
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